I recently read an email that contained a story of a woman that had four boyfriends that she cared for in different ways. Then the woman became ill and as she asked her boyfriends if they would stay by her side and go with her, they all turned her down except the one who she had neglected, but the one that had been the most loyal and true to her. In the end the four boyfriends represented four different things in our lives. The first represented our body, which we often lavish and indulge. The second was our possessions and social position, which sadly we often spend too much of our time trying to accumulate. The third was our family and friends, and the last one was our spirit, often neglected, by always loyal.
As I read this parable I was saddened by the sentiments. It is true that when we die our spirits will separate from our bodies, but not forever. Because of the resurrection we will be reunited with our bodies for eternity--our bodies are an eternal gift, so it is important to take care of it while we are here, and not trash it with horrible substances or deface it. Yes, our bodies will leave us when we die, but not forever. Our possessions will indeed leave us, the parable was right on that count. But our family and friends. How sad is it that there are many of us that do not believe that we can take our family and friends with us into the next life. Once again we may be separated from them for a time, but we are not going to be alone in the next life. The gospel of Jesus Christ has provided a way for us to be families forever, sealed both in this life and the next. This immense gift is ours if we accept and live the covenents in the temple!!! Not only our families, but if we share the gospel message with our friends as well, we can have them there with us too! No chair empty, right?
Lastly our spirits, will go with us as well. I have found that as I strive to nurture and care for my soul I automatically start to nurture my friends and family, and my body. I become more confident in my standing with God, and my confidence in myself as a person, and daughter of God grows as well, increasing myself image, so that my social standing and possessions don't seem to matter. I find complete joy in the journey, and contentment with where my life is headed. It's amazing how following God's plan and keeping his commandments, however "socially unpopular" that may be really does bring us joy!! Our Heavenly Father must know exactly what he is talking about when he tells us to follow him to find joy. I know his "yoke is easy, and his burden is light." And that if we take it upon us we really will find rest!